It is true that surprising your girl with what she wants can be harder but not impossible. If you are one of those guys who falls into the category of out of touch in areas of surprising others. Then it’s high time for you to get involved and do some research.
It is okay so far, if you have been that quiet boyfriend who rarely gets involved in anything that your girlfriend does. But it’s not okay anymore. Make sure she notices your change. But don’t just act all hyper active one day and the next day just go back to lie on your couch all day. Make sure it stays constant and becomes a daily habit. It is in your hands to make the relationship work. If you give her signals of giving up or you are not interested. Obviously you will reach the dead end very soon. Let it be in party decorations in Singapore or painting the house, try to get involved and keep her accompanied as much as possible. Make her feel that you are by her side to help and she doesn’t need to worry about anything else. Showing little progress will never fail to impress your girl.
Take control of the kitchen
If your girl has been the one to make breakfast, lunch and dinner regularly and you haven’t done her any help at all then you should definitely give it a chance this time. Cooking isn’t an easy task, but once in a while giving her some break is essential. If not one day suddenly she might feel like a machine just working for you, who never helps her nor appreciates her efforts to make you a good meal. You don’t necessarily have to mention it to her before taking charge of the kitchen .Try waking up early before your girlfriend does and make her a bed coffee or tea .You would certainly see her surprised. Also do some research about what you want to cook, probably something she loves would be better. There are many YouTube recipe videos .If you are a beginner you can start cooking by watching those videos. Serve her the food for a change and surprise her with few cheap helium balloons. Making her feel special every moment is the most vital pillar of love.
Plan a date
While in most of the relationships boyfriends are the ones to ask the girl out on a date. There are few exceptions where it’s the girl to take the guy on a date every time. If your relationship is one among them. Then it’s time for you to approach your girl and ask her out on a date. Take her to that place she always talks about going but never happened. Doing little things like these will not only make your relationship healthy but immensely increase the love for each other.
Therefore taking care of each other’s needs and wants and surprising your girlfriend should never go out of touch. Follow these simple steps which requires less effort to make your girl’s day!